tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post3236380347264793786..comments2023-07-01T03:08:13.099-07:00Comments on Romance Tokyoïte: On being a girl.Antastesia.http://www.blogger.com/profile/02942754707423647878noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-9716899437393823502013-01-03T10:06:44.099-08:002013-01-03T10:06:44.099-08:00Don't wish you were a boy...also this is not b...Don't wish you were a boy...also this is not boring and unplesant...this is straight from the heart and I am impressed.<br /><br />There are a lot of boys in the street who really need to grow up. It is sad where we have a society who always blames the girl for whatever befalls her in the hands of these boys.<br /><br />It is sad to be defenceless and scared to take the subway alone at night or have boys touch you just because they think they can... I just wish these boys could understand us and know what they do is wrong.<br /><br />Molara Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15028561658576923679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-76302137732648632692013-01-02T15:40:52.611-08:002013-01-02T15:40:52.611-08:00I admire your softness. Just watched your video on...I admire your softness. Just watched your video on being a vegetarian; your principles speak volumes. This is also reflected in your other videos. This softness is noticeable, because life for many people is hard.<br /><br />You also did a video called "The world needs more love" or something similar. I'm going to disagree: the world needs more compassion. Because the way people are, what they do to others - it's not so easy to say, "he's a bad man" or "what a jerk". Very often those people are simply echoes of the actions brought against them by others. Sometimes these people went through a formative period in an environment that was destructive. Of course, when I use "actions" and "destructive" it could mean different things; one boy that gets a slap on the wrist might experience it the same as a boy who gets a fist through the face. And vice versa.<br /><br />The same applies to women. People are different - incredibly unique. Yet we try to apply one rule for all of them - whether it's the law, or the unspoken rules of society.<br /><br />Finally, I think most of the unpleasantness you're experiencing is simply because men don't understand women. What we (people in general) don't understand, scares us. Yet we're very aware of the power you (women) can so easily have over us (men).<br /><br />Keep well. Stay safe.<br /><br />LeoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-56617206560892671742012-12-27T03:55:42.074-08:002012-12-27T03:55:42.074-08:00Well, as always, everything has is its up sides an...Well, as always, everything has is its up sides and downs.<br />Here in Brazil for example, judging by your text, you really don't want to come here. <br /><br />The culture is pretty machist yet, a man who doesn't look at a woman ass it's automatically "strange" or judged, because "what is life besides sex, huh?" <br /><br />Yeah, people are empty like that unfortunately. I don't want to sound too dramatic, but ignorance is free and easy. I myself admire the woman mind and I try to understand every glimpsy that I can, like I just did reading your publication. Yet, with all my experience and smartness, that doesn't mean that I'd be a nice person to meet.<br /><br />It's hard to cast aside ours preconceptions. Usually people just want to be friends with other people to cover their holes (please, don't stop reading here) and with all the details of one personality we never know what should be done. If a girl finds me interesting, but I don't answer her "smiles", because I think she is like you for example or I simply don't feel like it, there are plenty of girls who would think me as a dick or something like that, but if the contrary happens and I go for a girl's smile and she really was just being nice and polite I'd be in a bad position as well.<br /><br />So we have two problems: in the case of the woman, the feeling of (not necessarily) being weak and victimized by men conduct and men living in their "strong" where you must be the prominent otherwise you are crap and will be treated like that. You can't really try to measure that.<br /><br />So I guess all we can do is try to be the most openminded and comprehensive, because really there's not much more we can do, I guess. <br /><br />Merci beaucoup pour partager vos pensées, à travers de vos vidéos et textes, vous semblez une personne très sympathique et pardon par ma arrogance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-65524276631172694162012-12-23T06:55:26.591-08:002012-12-23T06:55:26.591-08:00Well thank you for your nice comment.
It was an in...Well thank you for your nice comment.<br />It was an interesting one. I do agree with you. I think it's nice to be a man and not THAT hard. I also belive that there are MANY boys on earth but so FEW men. I've always thought this way. It's kind of a shame really.<br />And on an happier note I'm glad you like France :)Antastesia.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02942754707423647878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-44236858905066884222012-12-22T09:20:48.272-08:002012-12-22T09:20:48.272-08:00First of all, i am not a fan of you, its the first...First of all, i am not a fan of you, its the first time i get into your blog and it was a nice youtuber coincidence.<br />Second, dont apologize about the post! sincere blogposts are weird these day and im really impressed about the way you write, more emotional than other blogs, you really just got it out of your mind and that per se it's enough to get my attention (and looks like also to write a comment)<br /><br />I'been living in France for 5 months, and i really noticed something AMAZING.... the french guys lack or confidence, or they are really frustrated...rarely something between....and it brakes my heart because i've met some of these guys and they are really nice, cool people! they just dont know what to do and they enter in a viciouse circle of "sexual harrasement" towards women.<br /><br />I'm not gonna agree with the two guys above, because i'm proud o beeing a man and i dont think it's hard (i really LOVE it!) but i will say that we live in a world full of boys...and the mayority of those boys dont know how to grow up and become a man...<br /><br />As i read once, "a man just know that he has changed, when he sees his different self, in the mirror of some woman's eyes"<br /><br />PS France rules, i really want to stay longer ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07790136780627629685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-73844646926515582012012-12-19T06:43:11.057-08:002012-12-19T06:43:11.057-08:00Wow. Reading all of that made me ashamed to be a g...Wow. Reading all of that made me ashamed to be a guy a little bit. Please don't think we are all like that these are just a few extreme situations. Why do I think this happens to women so much? I really think mass consumption of internet pornography and mainstream media are the biggest reasons why this happens. It contributes to the sentiment that women are just sexual bodies instead of being mothers, daughters, sisters, wives etc. Sorry for generalizing but French men are known for being more aggressive towards women maybe you should move to a country where men are more laid-back?<br /><br />Trust me, there ARE gentlemen out there. Unfortunately it is just harder to find them these days. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-35800077490654471762012-12-13T17:03:53.783-08:002012-12-13T17:03:53.783-08:00You are right in your words, I'm in paris too ... You are right in your words, I'm in paris too and I can feel this in the subway or in the street, I have to tell that I feel so anxious sometimes that I don't want to go out. Did you saw the post of Jack on Madmoizelle ? She was hurt by a guy in the street at night... It's really frightening to be a girl in this mad world, I can't even think of going out alone without being stressed (so I don't go out really often ^^).<br /> It's a really good article ! <3<br /><br /><br /><br />Katharczynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11531041782850278852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-14316734578262458862012-12-13T15:27:25.966-08:002012-12-13T15:27:25.966-08:00Don't wish to be a boy. In what you said, ther...Don't wish to be a boy. In what you said, there's also the other side.<br />Being a guy is somehow hard, because if you politely try to date a girl you really like (and not only physically), you might be refused because of the "reputation" we have ... it already happened to me, many times. If we start to know a girl on the internet, the girl will always think first "Is he a man who want me only for sex ?", so it's not always easy.<br />Plus, in your childhood, or even now, you're supposed to incarnate the strenght, the power, and so, everything will be more "violent", like exchanges with a guy who won't like you in the street, he can like steal all your stuff, punch you & kick you only because he's enjoying it. When you see such stuff happening, it's mainly happening to guys ... so feeling unsecure is for both sex unfortunatly ... the world is roten from the inside ^^'<br /><br />So yeah, I can't blame you for thinking that ... because I also wish to be a girl ! xD<br /><br />PS : Stay strong ! <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com