tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post7886583020825887772..comments2023-07-01T03:08:13.099-07:00Comments on Romance Tokyoïte: Baby you're a firework.Antastesia.http://www.blogger.com/profile/02942754707423647878noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-18728322064347781832014-07-25T02:58:11.068-07:002014-07-25T02:58:11.068-07:00Emy could I ask what your therapist is like and ho...Emy could I ask what your therapist is like and how you found him/her?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-50873351625405118422013-10-24T18:14:02.088-07:002013-10-24T18:14:02.088-07:00From Valerie Guignabodet's "Marriages!&qu...From Valerie Guignabodet's "Marriages!"<br /><br />Johanna: “Micky?”<br />Micky: “Sweetheart. You’re going to hurt yourself . . . You’re a lot quicker than I was. It took me 25 years to get to this place.<br />Johanna: “What place?”<br />Micky: “The end of a journey . . . This is where I should have started.”<br />Johanna: “You mean by leaving him.”<br />[Micky smiles and lovingly shakes her head]<br />Micky: “I mean by learning how to be alone. How to be free . . . It’s funny, my marriage is over and I’m finally capable of love. Life is admirably ironic . . . In order to love, you must be free. Free from everything, even from him. But to be free, you must be without fear. It took me 25 years to become fearless . . . Set yourself free, Johanna. Don’t be afraid of anything.”<br />[Micky hugs Johanna and kisses her cheek and smiles lovingly]<br /><br /><br /><br />Hi Emy,<br />While browsing for some french lessons on you tube, I found some of your lessons. After lesson three I saw another of your video called "Unrequited Love" which really touched me. I'm sorry if my reply may not be that relevant to this section in your blog. I'm not really familiar with all this social network stuff. But then again, with women, nothing is really irrelevant, even those things that may seem irrelevant. I don't know if you've seen this movie by Valerie Guignabodet but this, for me, is the best relationship movie ever made in terms of its honesty but most of all the character "Micky" played by Lio. Even how the movie ended was so clever and emphatic. We see her walking without shoes in the middle of the road which emphasized that she really is free - no more concerned about what people think; she will walk how she wants to walk or which side of the road she wants to walk on. Even her husband found her attractive again after she broke up with him which, as a man, I can relate to. Men get attracted not necessarily to a woman's independence but to her "freedom."<br /><br />Love yourself Emy. Everything else is a bonus.<br /><br />- Jason Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-88266205971626414552013-08-29T04:46:40.290-07:002013-08-29T04:46:40.290-07:00Hi!
I would like to thank you for sharing your t...Hi! <br /><br />I would like to thank you for sharing your thoughts, I think you are more courageous than you know!<br /><br />Very recently I went through something almost identical to what you described, I'd like to share this paragraph from Marianne Williamson.<br /><br />:)<br /><br />"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.' We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13197823861342225682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-25064736159192279082013-06-17T07:13:27.097-07:002013-06-17T07:13:27.097-07:00Bonjour Emy!
Sorry to hear that you have also had ...Bonjour Emy!<br />Sorry to hear that you have also had a tough year. I'm glad that you're able to talk openly about these problems you are having because it isn't always easy thanks to social stigma of MH problems. I suffer severely from depression and anxiety so I also had trouble to go to school or go out and things, and it's very difficult when people aren't as supportive as you wish they would be. However I also believe this can be a truly positive thing because you can see who really is important in your life and who is worth trusting :)<br /><br />It's important to put your own health first and engage in selfcare, so please try to look after yourself as much as possible. I hope that starting afresh at university will help you to feel better and that you feel more like yourself soon :) <br /><br />Thankyou for sharing this Emy, it's incredibly brave and thoughtful!<br /><br />Bonne courage! <3<br />- JosieJosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13410377598153564519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-29120555974820299352013-06-14T19:50:19.694-07:002013-06-14T19:50:19.694-07:00I'm sorry you've had a tough year, and tha...I'm sorry you've had a tough year, and that people close to you have been letting you down. I definitely understand feeling lonely and like there is no one there to support you. In a way, that's the same thing I've been going through the past year. I'm trying to become comfortable with the fact that I stand apart and that I may have to reach my goals and dreams without someone beside me. Thank you for writing this, it's brave of you to realize these things and not be afraid to face the world. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-89390128355113518282013-06-11T10:56:47.000-07:002013-06-11T10:56:47.000-07:00I really liked how your phrased and explain everyt...I really liked how your phrased and explain everything in this post. I went through the exact same situation about a year ago when I realized that all the time I put into other's was not, and would not be returned...it ended a few friendships and simply changed others. I totally agree in focusing on the people you love but not to forget yourself and your own dreams/wants. When I fully realized this I booked my own flight to London and now am following my dream of living there starting this fall :) and going back to school! Life is a crazy thing that just keeps teaching you lessons even if you are tired of it.<br />But my point of this comment...fantastic post my dear :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04618370120515704950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-17359000312914058522013-06-04T17:42:51.902-07:002013-06-04T17:42:51.902-07:00Ce commentaire a été supprimé par l'auteur.bryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12140553766812325034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236424999895509020.post-87147807848218734022013-06-03T12:29:11.504-07:002013-06-03T12:29:11.504-07:00je ne suis pas tout à fait d'accord perso... J...je ne suis pas tout à fait d'accord perso... Je ne critique pas tes amis et connaissances, mais tu es probablement juste tombée sur des personnes qui n'ont pas la même façon de voir les choses que toi. <br />Il y a également le genre de personnes qui, ne sachant pas exprimer leur sentiments, ne vont pas spécialement te montrer un grand intérêt, alors qu'ils sont très inquiets pour toi par exemple. <br />Les gens sont différents, c'est un fait, mais je n'irais pas jusqu'à dire que c'est très rare de rencontrer quelqu'un who cares about their friends more or at least as much as for theirselves. C'est mon côté optimiste et naïf qui pense ça.<br />Et d'un autre côté, mon côté pessimiste pense que tu as complètement raison. L'être humain est égoïste et mauvais dans un sens. On pourrait même les comparer à des vampires, qui n'absorbe pas le sans, mais l'énergie. et Ils te mettent à bout de force. <br /><br />Bref. Quoiqu'il en soit, courage Emy! Tu es un vrai soleil (caché derrière les nuages parfois). Et si tu as besoin de quoique ce soit, n'hésites pas. Je ne pourrais pas de décrocher la lune, mais j'essaierai de faire ce que je peux ^^Emihttp://facebook.com/emi1712noreply@blogger.com